Eventually , everything will connect.

So do you think the universie fights for two souls to be together ? No na. Then why will destiny and fate decide this? Its you who has to decide. Rest will take care.
"What's the world's greatest lie?... It's this: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose
control of what's happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate."
Its you who has to make an effort to bring back or let go. Its your take on it.
Its not about being fake. Its not about the pain inside. Its not about time heal. Its not about forever. Its about realising how your love and respect vanishes in a single day. How terrible can our souls be ? 
Its about realisation
that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."
And please Destiny is not in your hand. Future is not in your hand. The only thing that can be controlled by you is your mind, your way to get out of it or get back to it.
Somethings are too strong to be coincidences.
And one day you will be grateful that things didn't work out the way you wanted them to.
"I've witnessed,... the gradual collapse of
my life, the slow foundering of all I wanted to be... Fate has always tried to make me love or want things just so that it could show me, on the very next day, that I didn't have and could never have them."
It's not about fooling yourself. Its about respecting your feelings. It may take time to get over but you are stronger than you think you are only if you want to be.
Cause may be the reason of the event might not be accepatable to you now , bt rather some day later in near future. Wait for that sunrise.