Wednesday, 1 October 2014

A letter to best friend.

Dear
Bestfriend,
So, I'm not even sure where to begin this letter really. Can I start off by saying that you are the only one I fear to lose? Because you are the most special asset I have for life. And just in case no one ever tells you that, I'm telling you. Many people don't really appreciate you as much as they should. I m really tge most proudest friend in this world.  Like... if there were such a thing as soul mates, you may actually be mine. You're the yolk to my egg , The real sister to my life , The Grace to my Stars.
Its like I dont  have  to talk to you daily to keep my bond but then i want to talk to you and make a call at the end of the day just describing you my day to which you will listen patiently. Our friendship has reached a state where we cannot offend each other but the thing is we will not offend each other. You get me ?
I originally wanted to write you a letter about why you re my best friend and saturate it with all the generic reasons and adorable anecdotes, but I m not
going to do that because you already know why you re my best friend, duh.
            But i guess I ll tell you what is the most appreciable thing , your attitude towards just satisfying yourself for pleasure and not worrying about what others will think about you ; like your way to dress up not for show off but because you yourself like it.
Your modesty is something I ll always try to inhibit in myself. Your humbleness shows how well brought up you are.
          Your love for your Mom is heartening.  I respect your dreams and lookout about every little emotion. Its different but  then thats the way you start accepting and respecting others right?
         I dont know if I understand your love for beige, for bollywood, for Hersheys, for ranveer, for deepika , for Matheran , for Pop and Dine , for paneer  but I m here to accept everything you love and desire to be. i love your family as if it were my
own, and i enjoy being so close to them. i can't imagine  You are the sister I never had and never expected.
           I respect the very fact that you like to print photos so that when we get old enough we can smile and cry on our silly past.
            You know the best thing about us ; it is that we both want to copy each others some aspects of lifestyle and no ego  is affecting this , no fear of losing our originality. I love to copy you and I will always want to do so. There is not even a single pound of jealousy towards you. People ask me ," arent you jealous when she scores more than you do ? "To which I reply "  Didnt I tell you whatever i score near to her is because of her. " I accept I was an average student. I required some kind of push to my potential and I m proud that you gave me that. I respect when you share your knowledge with everybody rather than just keeping it to yourself.
             I ve already written 19 letters to you. But the thing is I can write 19 more.
I love bragging about you to everybody i meet. My college friends already think that nothing will enter my stubborn mind unless Trusha tells her. And I guess it's true. Your advice may not always be the right one but it is definitely going to be favoring me and good for me. Thank you.
            You know there are hardly any people in this world who can manage to dance rowdily in a visarjan and top Maharshtra in Mbbs. And I m proudest about this. Your grounded nature is something that will take you to the Moon one day.
              Our friendship has reached such a state where you can just ring up to her and tell her I liked a new quote of a book or I ve made a terrible mistake while baking a cake or just may be get all changes from my wallet and ask people whether they need change instead of big notes without each others permission. :P
And that day I really felt tht we ve crossed
 all the railings of lifelong friendship successfully.
And the very fact that we cannot keep surprises for each other cause you are way too excited about it that you want to tell it to your best friend even though the surprise is for each other. Hahaha.. its so difficult to hide any emotion from each other. It is this assurance that your best friend is always going to be there to feel your every emotion equally.
       You are that one person whose existence   makes me feel less lonely in this psycho, crazy world. And with whom
the silences are never awkward.
You know exactly how incredibly
immature I can act sometimes. Thank
you for not judging me when I did
something really stupid, but also
thanks for telling me I was an idiot and
probably shouldn't have done it in the
first place. You are someone I could never replace for anything in life.
       Everyone deserves a best friend, there's no doubt about that. I can only hope that everyone is as lucky as I am. I've always wished for a sister, I just never knew that I'd be able to pick her out. You just love me like it's your job, and I hope you never stop. And this is why I feel so proud telling others that I have only 1 best friend.  But cause I m doing it right 1 is enough.
     If our past and present adventures is any clue to what our future would bring, we're in for a hell of a ride.

With love,
Your best friend ^^
            
           

A letter from best friend.

So this girl of mine wrote me the following letter. You know you feel so amazing when your best friend writes to you. This is what she wrote ;

Dear phalu,
Sometimes I wonder exactly what is the connection between the two of us?  May be the 7 years of togetherness has helped us to be still together even if we are differently similar. Whatever it is , Babe , admist the whole lot, I like you a lot! Really! So much that my college friends already know you well , even if they havent seen or met you.
My whatsapp wallpaper is you and me or my Insta acvount that should be renamed Trusha  More (sharing pics only with Phalesha Rawal). And I dont think any more proof required for that; you already know it very well.
             I can sit with you for long years, absolutely doing nothing, as we did this afternoon, without getting bored. I can predictas to what you are going to say next, admist a casual conversation.  I respect that you listen to me and let me speak, even ifits utter nonsense.  I know what your reaction Will be when i choose  beige ober black color . I know that you have amazing quality of getting along with unknown people. I know when yiu are wearing a fake smile or when you are genuinely happy. I feel extremely happy when you openly declare that you have only one best friend. I understand your quality of being melodramatic and that you will  a surely hype  situation  that you are describing.            
             I get to  know when you are sad or heart broken, and you need your space to recover. I love the fact that you dont like spoiling somebody else's dat and so you wear a smile, even if you are actually not wantinh to do it. I appreciate when you notice small things in a song, which we fail to do . I know you can cry even on a dumbest emotional scene from  a movie.  I love your liking for eggs , for bollywood, for TFIOS, for John green Quotes, For stalking somebody else's profile, For Deepika, for dogs, for black, for grey! I understand your love and respect for your Dad.
       I love it when we don't nned to decide the menu when we go to a restaurant;  cause in our minds  we already know what we are going to order. I like it when you fearlessly say "Trusha , this isnt looking good! Just dont buy it."  I like it when you laugh at my stupidities and say I m unfit     for being Maharashtra Topper.
             I fear ghosts; you very well know that : and so I put into practice your belief of chanting the Gayatri Mantra  ; atleast it gives you momentaty courage to be strong .
I love it when you say "Trusha please don't sing. You are pathetic at it "
             We are not jealous of each other. I know and accept yor are much smarter than me and Babe  I seriously dont feel bad  even if you are Good at  somethings  than me.  Not even a single bit of jealousy comes to mind.  I swear.
I  imagine had you been in medical   or I been in Engineering college; had things  been the same  ? May be better , may be worst .   Whatever it would be, it would have been fun. I am sure I would have enjoyed it as much as i m doing it now.
              My Liking for you makes me like you even more, every next I am with you.  Babe you are my soul sister and i acctually mean it. And I dont want to regret not thanking you for being there in my life. Babe, I love you and will continue to love you till one of us stops breathing. May we have manyore experiences to relish for lifetime and share with our Gen-Next. You and I will always be US -Forever.
           Your life is worth everything when your when your imperfections are loved by your best friend.  Our friendship has reached such a state that you dont doubt a forever. The perfect Grace to my Stars.
I love you best friend.